Am in love with someone older!!!?

Please my good friends,








I need a candid advice from you all, so i will not make the greatest mistake in my life, my question goes this way, i fell sick sometimes ago, not quite 3months, i met a lady in the hospital which i was admitted, she happens to be the nurse that took care of me, she ask me how old i am i lied to, i told her am 28 meanwhile am just 25, and she told me she is 34years old, and she has a son, unfortunately we both fell in love, we鈥檝e had great sex together and she is really good.





Though i like her, but the problem is the age gap, what will people say, and what will become of my future? How do you think my family and friends will react to this? She now sees me as her future husband.





Please advice me like you would advice your own brother.





Am stuck here, and i need your urgent reply.





God bless you.








Charles


Am in love with someone older!!!?
Who cares what other people think? As long as the two of you are happy, healthy, %26amp; respectful of each other, then who gives a flip? You are going to be with her, not everyone else.





The only thing that concerns me is that you seem to be portraying this as you being stuck in a relationship that's now too serious for your liking. If you feel like things are moving too fast, talk to her! Don't hold it back- it could be that she's taking your silent consent as approval that everything is going at the pace it's at. She'll be a little hurt that you don't want to get hitched, but she'll understand. If she pushes you, then it's not love that's driving your relationship- it would be need. You just seem to be portraying this relationship as such a bad thing, which isn't healthy for your relationship. If you don't want to get serious, then get out now before anyone gets hurt worse than they would be.








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BTW, she probably knew your real age from the get-go. Nurses have access to ALL of your personal information %26amp; one of the first things to pop up is your age.








Also, after reading the question again, something bothers me. You two have only been together for 3 months %26amp; she's already talking marraige? That's a big red flag there sweetie. You don't know each other well enough to even move in together, let alone get married. I really don't think age is the issue here. I think this woman is moving WAY too fast %26amp; it's creeping you out. Tell her to slow down. Period. Don't ever get married to someone that you've been dating for less than a year.Am in love with someone older!!!?
She crossed the line with the nurse/patient relationship. If this comes out in the open she may lose her job and be struck off the medical register for life. The age gap is quite big and she already has baggage (her son). Walk away from this while you can and put it down to experience. You'll find someone else. These complicated situations rarely work out.



Age is only a number. You may get some funny looks at first. If you guys are truly in love, your work through that.
your 25, old enough to make your own life choices, dont let love pass you by because of what others might think, an age gap doesn't make a differece when ur an adult, its your level of maturity that does, ur friends or family may be a little surprised at first, but if they love you they will want to see you happy
I believe that this is a problem that you and only you can decide. If you love each other, than why not follow your heart? If age is not an issue for you personally, than why worry? I have had this discussion with my friend. She was worried as her parents are 7 years apart. I said, are they 5 and 12? She said, obviously no. Then there's no problem. You are both adults, and old enough to make up your own mind. Trust you're instincts. Best of luck, I honestly hope all works out for you. xoxo
if you're uncomfortable leave,


you're not married, so you're not stuck.


just have fun.
If you are both truly in love, then you need to come clean about your actual age and apologize to her for lying. People are not going to say anything... it's barely a 10 year difference... who cares?? Nobody will, so don't worry about that. It's nobody's business what your age difference is. If you want to be with this woman and you want to marry her, then you should let nobody stop you. All the best to you and her !
Love has no age limit. If you can find true love, then roll with it.


Good luck.
Societ,age gap,family,the 'norm' ASIDE...at the end of the day its just u two...and what makes u happy and that u two have decided to be together and enjoy each others company....this is whats most important...people WILL ALWAYS have an opinion, they will stand on the 'high ground' and judge and gossip and interfere and what not....they are the shallow, immature ones who have NO IDEA what its like to experience a unique kinda love.... so forget them (well take everythg they say with a grain of salt) and make up YOUR OWN mind bout whats best for u two and her kid....





live for today and try everythg in this world that makes u happy and defines u...u have found somethg special in this lady, dont ruin it with 'what will society think' thoughts...as iv mentioned above...'''at the end of the day, its just YOU TWO''





goodluck
Your problem is not the age gap.





It is not being honest about something as silly as 25 or 28 years old.





Son, if she was your nurse don't you think she knows your real age?


It would be that chart thing ....................





Relationships formed on deception cannot go well.