How will the marriage be?

please HONEST answers to WOMEN out there.





I just want to know how your future would be in this marriage. There is a woman who breaks up with her longterm boyfriend and marries another guy quickly after. She admits to everyone, and knows herself, that she is completely in love with her ex, but doesnt want to waste her life waiting for him to marry her. She loves the new guy, not like the ex, but he was there and willing to marry her. She told her best friend that if the ex asks to marry her she will accept and wants him to ask her, but that she is tired of waiting, so if hte other guys asks, she will marry him also (and that is what she did). He treats her well, he loves her, HOWEVER the first 8 months of her marriage, she is pretty unhappy. She tells everyone she made a mistake, should have waited for the other guy, and if she could she would go back and tiem and wait for the other guy and not marry her husband. But, her reality is she is married, and she will TRY to make this marriage work. She is a woman who likes to make everything work.





What do you think will happen as she felt this way, so unhappy so soon in marriage? Can she be so unhappy for that long, then ';all of a sudden be happy? Will it fail? Or eventually will she fall in love with her husband? Ladies, what do you think?????How will the marriage be?
Quit hanging on.... She left YOU because you refused to make a commitment.


Now she MARRIED someone else... So stop wondering if it will fail of if she will be happy and MOVE ON!How will the marriage be?
if she doesn't love him by now, she never will, so this marriage will definatly end in divorce, and until she does it her life will be pure misery, on her and everybody around her. Her being so unghappy for along time will make her unhappy in every part of her being so it will show in every possible aspect of her life.
I don't think the marriage will last, but it might. Thankfully I was completely in love when I married my husband. He was the only man I was thinking about at the time. However this lady could be happy that she's got stability and fall more in love with her husband with time. They may last. Only time will tell.
Yes you can be unhappy then suddenly be happy and find a new meaning in your marriage. Is also possible she will not ever be happy but remain comfortably indifferent. I think she'll eventually fall in love with her husband because she has no other choice.
I think she don't know what she wants.





I think you are crazy for marrying her so soon.





Will she fall in love with you? Maybe. Maybe not.





The real question is, are you willing to be second best for the rest of your life?
I think she will eventually leave. I dont believe she really is in love with the new husband, either, she moved too fast and she is trying to make herself love him. It doesnt work that way.
This question seems to be circulated alot lately....





Ony SHE can determine this.





She made the mistake so, she needs to deal with it.



No things will just get worse she needs to do what she can to get out of it.
the 2nd guy will sense something is up and when he realizes she's in love w/another... of course it will fail
i think it was doomed to fail before she said ';i do';
Who cares what stupid women do.





You're perfectly happy and in love with one man, but move in with another man who you don't love as much. The only difference is the other man is willing to sign a piece of paper. It makes no sense to me. A person shouldn't be so desperate for marriage that they'll marry anyone who is game. Marriage isn't some magic elixir that makes your life better. It's just marriage. And then there's just divorce. And then there's growing old alone because you rejected the love of your life.
IMO:


There are so many things that ';could '; happen here, depending on so many different circumstances. If she is ';sort of'; in love with her now hubby, it's not unheard of for her to fall deeply in love with him, once she realizes what an amazing person he is. However, that could take years.


There is also the possiability that this woman could just leave the current husband, for the ex. HOWEVER, i would think that she would only do this, if she had a secret relationship going with him again for a while first. I don't see her just leaving the security of her marriage on a whim, she would want to test it out while she still had something to fall back on.


As it seems as though thats all this woman wanted anyway...a security blanket.