What are the chances this marriage will succeed?

WOMEN OUT THERE: If on the day you get married, AND for the 1st 6 months afterwards you are NOT happy, regretting your choice to get married, will you be happy?





Lets say you still think about an ex of yours, and even though hubby treats you well, you still have felt horrible the first 6 months of your marriage. What are the odds this marriage will work, or fail? You TRY to make it work, but still constantly question your choice. Will she just eventually fall in love with her husband and be happy or based on how this started it will fail? what do you think?What are the chances this marriage will succeed?
I think FAIL. You are going to find whatever you can wrong in the relationship so that you will have an excuse to eventually leave.What are the chances this marriage will succeed?
The success of any marriage is dependent upon how much you invest in it.





Wondering if it will some day work will not make it work.
If it succeeds it will be miserable. If she isn't over that guy now she probably won't get over him with someone she doesn't love. You can beat a dead horse all you want, in the end all you will have is a dead horse that has been beaten.
maybe u try it for while ! marriage is a life time commentment! love usually grows with time!
Don't mean to judge, or to be rude, but if this is the case, you sound as if you jumped into this marriage for some other reason than caring for the guy.... maybe impulsive, and for sure, you don't know yourself well, nor him at all. As well, you sound immature, unappreciative, and unable to be even a little in contact with your own feelings.





No, this won't last, nor will any other serious thing you do last or be successful. Those who succeed in having a happy marriage are first, by them selves happy, then pick appropriate partenrs... ones with like aims, goals, backgrounds, educations, etc.
You can't make yourself feel something that you don't and you can't stop yourself from feeling something that you do. I think you should consider why you got married in the first place? That may help you remember all the things you love about your spouse and help calm all your concerns. In the end it is up to you and you can't fight your heart forever.
Hun, if for the first six months of your marriage you are not happy it's going to be slim to none chances that it will work out. I am a divorced mother of two and let me just advise you to not have kids if you are still un-happy because most likely this relationship will fail (sorry to say) and it will be really hard on the kids. My boyfriend who is a marriage counselor says that you should go on a three month open relationship (where you can see other people)








best of luck


xx


Lisa