A question about love?

I think the best way to love a person, is to not love the person at all.





To not love the person, barring her from the knowledge of love, will spare her the pain when one's time comes.





If a mother has never loved her child, spend time with the child or taught the child to love, will the children be hurt if the mother herself dies? No. And that's a way of protecting the child, because the child is protected from the hurt and pain of the mother's death. And that roots back to the mother not ever taught the child to love, thus not knowing what pain from losing a loved one is.





After all, if one has never experienced love, how can one experience pain of losing it? Thus, by sparing the child from pain, it's a form protection. So now you understand why not loving the child, is protecting the child, and ironically protection is a form of love, but in this sense, not loving is a form of protection?





Ironically makes sense, right?





(Same goes for never experienced failure, how to experienced success? Reminds me abput SA1 results, but we'll keep moving forward and prove our courage to continue)





And here's a better example.





I read somewhere about a wife divorcing her husband


';I would like to get a divorce, because I've enough of your protection. You've protected me from any pain I can ever feel if you are gone';





Funny the way the world works, isn't it?





And isn't stealing what we were taught to be immoral and wrong?


Well, then won't stealing a heart be as selfish?





To make a person fall for you, thus causing the person share a bank account, a bed with you, won't that be physically and practically selfish? Also, steal that heart of the person, to make the person so in love with you they give part of their lives to you, isn't that greedy? To make the person give you their heart, isn't that selfish? Isn't that taking away the person's chance of loving another person?





Now, that's a point, isn't it?A question about love?
Ok so why ever do anything that is pleasurable ever? Because anything that is good can be taken away from you and you can miss it and it will hurt.


If you spend your life denying yourself good things so you can't get hurt when you lose them you miss the point of life.


We are here only for a short while so we should grab any chance of happiness (that doesn't negativley affect others) and if you get hurt you learn and you become a better person. If nothing ever goes wrong you never learn and you never change and you might as well not be livingA question about love?
i dont agree at all


life is full of feelings joy and sadness, success and failiure etc


and god give us the right to experience those feelings


it is within us so we cannot take it away from ourselves








plz answer mine


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The entire meaning of life is to love and be loved. Some can only love a few and some entire nations. True greatness can be measured by the capacity to love.
Love a person includes love his mistakes.
Love is like breathing.





You don't hold your breathe forever so that you will never smell bad stuff ;-p





Neither do you stop loving so that you will never get hurt ;-p
Marrige has become nothing more than glorified prostitution and most want out but they are too chicken to leave.
I don't agree.
you are confusing love with marriage. People get married for ALL KINDS of reasons. Marriage is a cultural institution designed to ensure transfer of property, care of children, monogamy, etc...
A mother loves her child weither she is displaying her love forwardly or not. I believe everyone will miss there parents even if there isnt a bond that was established in love. The reason being is we all need someone in life to love,miss, think over.





About stealing hearts, women certainly do. Mines been stolen 3 times, never married any of them, it wouldnt have worked out.


Theres sometimes a woman who will steal your heart and is your soulmate, Your one harmony when together and there is nothing selfish in finding someone you know who completes your entire life and heart that causes you to face the world without remorse.


I dont believe its selfish to marry someone, its only selfish to


know there not that One Person and to continue on with them still just to fill voids where your One love should be. Im going to find my One love oneday, she's going to steal my heart and fill my soul where all the holes are and complete me and were going to spend our lives together forever.





To find love, the love your here for is not selfish, theres no other act more selfish than to forsake everything meaningful for logical Interest in proving a point that is only being proven because you dont know yet how to deal with loss or pain of the soul.
Sometimes you have to lose to gain... There are many forms of love and through each kind we gain something. Love isi selfish, painful, hard, mean but worht it.. You can't force someone to give away their heart, you can't force someone to love you...if they do, than they do and you can't just turn that emotion off. You have to take the bad with the good because in the end, whether you stay together or break up, it will be ok and it will be for the better. You learn from it, you grow from it, you discover things about yourself you didnt even know! LOVE is not easy, no one ever said it would be but I promise you IT IS WORTH IT
To be frank,I didn't read the essay what you have given.I simply try to answer for the question ';A question about love';.There are two words undefined love and friendship.Both are nothing but experience.If you love somebody then you feel the happiness and if you are loved then you feel the meaning of life.Start loving everybody then the world will be yours.