';I'm a woman in Seattle, 57 years old, %26amp; I avoided black men from the time they started hitting on me 40 years ago--until I fell in love with a man of mixed race in 2004. We had an affair of the heart, but never consummated it because he's married. Our relationship is now over. But in the meantime, I became curious %26amp; started dating other black men for the purpose of checking out the dynamic %26amp; the sex. In addition to many of the points you make, I found that the life experience of black men is closer to my struggle as a white woman than any entitled white male I ever dated or married. That's important. I never realized how important it was until I opened the door to a black man. We rose above it. We developed character. But we never forgot the prejudice that was levied against us, as black men %26amp; white women in America. The other important thing I discovered is that black men are ';fascinated with the equipment.'; A black man takes it as a slight if his woman doesn't have an orgasm. I never encountered a white man who cared that much. Black men act like they have all the time in the world to make love to you. That translates into security %26amp; relaxation for me, the environment I need to have an orgasm. I never could with white men because I was nervous that he'd quit trying as soon as he decided it was pointless, leaving me hanging. Black men know more about how to please women. They learn it from an early age. They don't imitate what they see in Playboy or porno flicks. They are like urban sex scientists, determined to conduct a complete survey of the sample they've selected. Black women drive black men into the arms of white women by ridiculing their men. Maybe some of the mockery is deserved. Maybe some of these men are too arrogant %26amp; need to be taken down a peg. But the degree to which I've seen black women degrade a brother is tantamount to domestic abuse, without the corporal element. Then, as you note, they get mad at the white woman to whom the black man flees. Your article was great. I have different reasons, on many points, for desiring black men %26amp; being unable to have sex with a white man anymore, but many of the points you make are ones I share, or hadn't articulated until today. Now I can see them clearly. Thank you so much';.
This white woman admits that she ';avoided black men'; when she was younger (AKA Too good/ hot for one until she met and married her mixed husband ironically when she was 52. What a coincidence, once she is ';Over the hill,'; suddenly race doesn't matter anymore
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http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news%26amp;columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm
Here is another white woman who ';started to love black men'; at 40.
Here is what she looks like. (She is the fat @$$ sundamaged, trool on the left)
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2169727/susan_crain_bakos_goes_to_babeland/
Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Black men, don't we deserve better?
And my friends wonder why I take a white woman flirting with me as an insult.Are us black men becoming a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women?
I know what you're saying. Most white women are *extremely* racist. Most are extremely discreet and subtle about it. As for others, however, you will notice their racist side come out usually when they're drunk and angry. I see this a lot at the bars.
Women are born followers. More often than not, they stringently adhere to social norms, and many are far too conservative to go after what they really want if it means they will elicit raised eyebrows from their peers. A B/W mixed couple will surely elicit a lot of dirty looks and jealousy from other whites.
Now, understand that I've seen quite a few white dime pieces with black guys. Just as often, I will overhear a white woman state that her parents and other family members would never accept a black man or ';mixed baby';.
As they pass their expiration date (age 35+), women become increasingly desperate to get the attention they received in their twenties, so they are forced to lower their standards. It comes across as highly insulting to be finally considered by them after all this time.
My advice to you? Spurn them. You are in the position of power now that these ladies are old, fat, and desperate. These ladies are yours for the choosing. You are a high value male, right? Be selective, but don't limit yourself to white chicks. Beautiful Latinas and Asians are availabe to you as well.
Why would buy an old used car anyway, when you can get a Ferrari?
Don't settle for anything less than the hottest, youngest girls you can find.Are us black men becoming a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women?
';Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Black men, don't we deserve better?';
You certainly don't deserve better, if you can rip into another race for being superficial and racist when you are the one complaining about looks, and assuming all white women are the same. What a hypocrite!
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