Are us black men becoming a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women? Reply to Topic?

Now I'm not a black man that would ever be desperate enough to date a white girl but some of y'all be pissing me off. My friend invited me to this nasty azz group and I just had to look at the members. I couldn't help but notice that a majority of the white girls in this group are either fat, old and/ or just plain unattractive, common among white girls who ';love black men.';





I've been told numerous times that I am very good looking ';for a black guy.'; And they act as if that's supposed to mean something more because it's coming from them the ';epitome of beauty'; LOL. I've had fat, ugly white women come up and flirt as if they KNOW I will be interested and then they actually get surprised when I tell them to waddle their fat cellulite@$$#$ out of my face. Doesn't it bother any of y'all that you are somebody's last resort?





Here is a reader comment from an article about a white woman who';loves'; black men (AKA she was too fat/ old for a white man.) Just read it, it ipisses me off.





';I'm a woman in Seattle, 57 years old, %26amp; I avoided black men from the time they started hitting on me 40 years ago--until I fell in love with a man of mixed race in 2004. We had an affair of the heart, but never consummated it because he's married. Our relationship is now over. But in the meantime, I became curious %26amp; started dating other black men for the purpose of checking out the dynamic %26amp; the sex. In addition to many of the points you make, I found that the life experience of black men is closer to my struggle as a white woman than any entitled white male I ever dated or married. That's important. I never realized how important it was until I opened the door to a black man. We rose above it. We developed character. But we never forgot the prejudice that was levied against us, as black men %26amp; white women in America. The other important thing I discovered is that black men are ';fascinated with the equipment.'; A black man takes it as a slight if his woman doesn't have an orgasm. I never encountered a white man who cared that much. Black men act like they have all the time in the world to make love to you. That translates into security %26amp; relaxation for me, the environment I need to have an orgasm. I never could with white men because I was nervous that he'd quit trying as soon as he decided it was pointless, leaving me hanging. Black men know more about how to please women. They learn it from an early age. They don't imitate what they see in Playboy or porno flicks. They are like urban sex scientists, determined to conduct a complete survey of the sample they've selected. Black women drive black men into the arms of white women by ridiculing their men. Maybe some of the mockery is deserved. Maybe some of these men are too arrogant %26amp; need to be taken down a peg. But the degree to which I've seen black women degrade a brother is tantamount to domestic abuse, without the corporal element. Then, as you note, they get mad at the white woman to whom the black man flees. Your article was great. I have different reasons, on many points, for desiring black men %26amp; being unable to have sex with a white man anymore, but many of the points you make are ones I share, or hadn't articulated until today. Now I can see them clearly. Thank you so much';.





This white woman admits that she ';avoided black men'; when she was younger (AKA Too good/ hot for one until she met and married her mixed husband ironically when she was 52. What a coincidence, once she is ';Over the hill,'; suddenly race doesn't matter anymore


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http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news%26amp;columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm


Here is another white woman who ';started to love black men'; at 40.





Here is what she looks like. (She is the fat @$$ sundamaged, trool on the left)


http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2169727/susan_crain_bakos_goes_to_babeland/





Isn't it funny that in their younger days, when they think they are the $h!t, white women think they are too good for a black man (LMAO) but when they start looking nasty (for white women that's like 28 or so.) or get fat, they all of a sudden ';love'; black men. One of these nasty b!$%#es approached me at work and I had to tell her to get her sundamaged, tuna colored *** out of my face and go to pilates or something.





Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Seriously, not every black man is desperate enough to date you. Black men, don't we deserve better?





Doesn't this bother any of you?





Here is a youtube video talking about it!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqJbb2aBaxw





And my friends wonder why I take a white woman flirting with me as an insult.Are us black men becoming a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women? Reply to Topic?
Yes,I agree with you. I heard a black guy saying that he has become a fat magnet. He told me that lot of fat, unattractive white chicks were flirting with him. I see lot of fat, unattractive women with black guys. If you have the money, quality, determination, you deserve something better.Are us black men becoming a dating wasteland for old, ugly and/ or unattractive white women? Reply to Topic?
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Honestly, I'm attracted to black men for the simple fact that they are more attractive, there is just something about them that gets me. I find it kind of condemning that you say all women that are with black men are ';fat, ugly, and old';. I'm eighteen and I've preferred black guys for as long as I can remember. I'll be honest, I'm not the skinniest thing ever, but my genetics play a huge role in that. You can't judge people, you don't know if something caused them to be overweight other than the simple fact that they don't know how to eat or exercise.


You can think that you deserve better, and you might; but there are some black men out there that want these girls - I don't go and hit on men, they come to me. I don't dress gross, I look good for my size. I don't try fitting into clothes that weren't meant for me and I don't slam on make-up like I need a new face. You can't say that other black men don't want that 'more cushion' for the pushin'. It is all personal preference.





I will agree with you though on the women that are old and truly unattractive and they hit on black men because they think that all black men go for the bigger women; that is just desperation on their part and you have every right to turn them away, but you shouldn't have to be so rude about it.
I think it's offensive that you are generalizing that all white women who are attracted to black men are fat/ugly/old or whatever. Definitely not the case. Ex. Kim Kardashian %26amp; Reggie Bush. Granted, she's Armenian, but still. BEAUTIFUL couple. Second--Heidi Klum %26amp; Seal. Again...Beautiful. Your ignorance is blinding you. Be open to dating people of all nationalities...you'd be surprised how wrong you are.
The fact you start your 'question' off with saying you'd never be desperate enough to date a white woman really shows you're as bad as these 'ugly, fat women' coming on to you! So you don't really have a leg to stand on.





And for the record, I'll never be attracted to black men personally and I'm in my mid-30s... I'll hold out for a white guy any day of the week thanks!!!