Married guys who left their wives for another woman what made you decide it was time to make an honest woman?

out of your mistress. With my single gal pal's married lover, I've said for a while now he will leave his wife for her. Their relationship is moving into a new phase where he has begun to talk about the future with her in a big way. He's finding it harder and harder to be away from her and from everything I'm hearing it sounds to me as if the New Year is going to bring with it some major changes in his current living situation. I'm sure he isn't the first married man whose fallen in love with a single gal and ultimately decided to make an honest woman of her, and make an honest man of himself, by coming out of the closet and admitting he is in love and wants to build a life with her. But I'm curious and would like to hear from other marrieds who decided to leave their marriage for a chance at love with someone new, was there a defining moment...as in was there some kind of catalyst that made you suddenly know where your future was, or how exactly did you come to the conclusion that your lover deserved more from you than to live in the shadows? What made you decide to leave your wife or husband to make a new life with someone else?Married guys who left their wives for another woman what made you decide it was time to make an honest woman?
I hope that you guys are really good friends because soon enough she's gonna need a good shoulder to cry on, when he does the same thing to her. It's never a good idea to ever mess with a married man. If he was running around behind his wife back, you can be sure that he'll do it again. Rarely does these types of situations work out. It may go sweet for a little while but when he moves in with his mistress and she then starts acting like a wife, he's outta there. Leaving her only the title of a home wrecker, taking his cheating @s s back to his wife. If she'll have him.





Unfortunatly in this day and age, homewrecking looks far worse than a cheater.





Good thing it isn't you...Or is it?Married guys who left their wives for another woman what made you decide it was time to make an honest woman?
tell your ';friend'; when s h i t hit the fan she will have to take the lying bastard home. she could never trust him. sure for now your ';friend'; will trust him but they will not get married any time soon.








i wish your ';friend'; luck and find a single guy to start her life with.
Why don't you just admit that your the pathetic individual whose messing around with a married man? No one is this into their ';friend's'; biz. Catch a clue.
Until he actually starts divorce proceedings, I wouldn't hold your breath. It's easy to build castles in the air with someone on the side, but making them come true? Whole different matter.
i think when a guy leaves the wife it's because they are not in love.
If the guy truly wants to leave his wife he should do it on his own and set him self up as his own man. Only then can he come to another woman and offer a healthy relationship. Agree with the others, usually If a man cant cut it with the commitment he has already made its rare for him to be able to do it with another. Plus, if there are kids involved the ex will always be part of your lives. And if she is bitter and angry that is not pleasant.
It does indeed sound like it is you who is the one in love with a married man. Deep in your heart you know it is wrong to want to take him from his wife, so you are pretending it is your ';friend';.





What you are doing is EVIL.





Men never leave their wives. Unless their wife is a psycho, nutcase ***** ruining his home-life and he's desperately unhappy %26amp; would have left her anyway. But 9 times out of ten, it's not the case. Men marry someone for life, not for fun.





God help you.
My father-in-law left his wife and four sons (under the age of 13) to ';make an honest woman'; out of his pregnant secretary.


Theirs was a marriage made in hell and their subsequent child as well as the sons all suffered for it. It ended in a very messy acrimonious divorce.


Mistresses are marrying men who have lied to and cheated on women to whom they made deep and binding commitments (';forsaking all others...in sickness and in health...until death do us part';...etc.). Lying. cheating and lacking integrity doesn't bode well for starting a new relationship.


I'm guessing that the percentage of mistress marriages that make it is minuscule.
I feel bad for immature young naive girls who are lied to by horny married men with a family. Evaluate yourself...I mean your ';friend'; needs to look within herself to find her character defects. Maybe she was sexually abused as a child and feels the need to steal older men because they want what his wife has...I hope your ';friend'; doesn't get hurt....good luck with that!